I am so so very sorry to hear this devastating news about TJ. What a shock. I can only imagine the pain that Kathy must be going through over the loss of her precious son. My heart just breaks for her. I know this will also be devastating on your mom. It's just not something that we are prepared for. I will pray for all of you and especially Kathy. Thankfully, she has all of you to help her get thru this painful loss.
Again, me deepest sympathies to the whole family.
Sincerely,
Joanne